IMO life is about taking risks, really experiencing things. Looking him up doesn;t equal infidelity. Just curiousity. Especially since you liked him for a reason - who knows - maybe you'll rediscover a kindred soul.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney