Great question...
For a very long time I was very hesitant to post any pics of myself... I finally took the leap and posted a few nude pics of myself, tho even after doing that I wasn't prepared to expose my face.
My hesitancy was for several reasons.... the major being that I don't see myself as attractive. I have long since come to understand that altho I don't see myself as attractive at all, others might. Once I got over that... the possibility of being discovered by someone I knew was a less traumatic possibility.
I do have a job that, if my presence here were discovered could be SLIGHTLY compromised. I work for the state in a position where I work with the public. IF I had the slightest idea that one of the people on any of my cases knew that I was here, I would just have to take the steps to remove the case from my load. It could be easy for someone to attempt to hold my participation here over my head as leverage, but it wouldn't work well for them.
Last I looked, coming here, and posting wasn't illegal and it certainly couldn't be used as leverage to fire me. I don't believe I would be embarrassed (those closest to me at work already know I have a kinky side).
There is a slight advantage for people who only slightly know me to find me here... maybe it would allow them to see a side of my that they may have otherwised missed.. and that could be just the incentive they need to get to know me better
