Sounds like my high school girlfriend Julia,

We went out freshman year, but she dumped me for no discernable reason. Every six months or so, we would run into eachother and hook up. But I couldn't stand her for any long period of time. She was all about shoes/fashion/etc. and we would get into huge arguments all the time. We periodically got together for years. We tried going out, but it always wrecked in flames. In college it kept up for a long period of time, until we got to the point where we were able to actually carry on a conversation. Now, we are good friends, and haven't even so much as kissed for years. Hate builds passion? I don't know. . .

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