I would add that conversations about sex are often better had not in the bedroom. While you are so kind to be worried about him being unsatisfied, it does not sound as if he is concerned enough about your satisfaction. First I would suggest you make sure you know what works best for you. If you don't masturbate, start. If you do and you always use a vibe, try going without. Reading or listening to erotica while you do this may help. Once you know how to please you, show him how. Another suggestion I would make is to have evening where it is just about your pleasure and evening where it is just about his. Those times can be opportunities to learn about what the other likes/needs without your own needs/desires taking front stage.

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