You may not be his first but experience and learning experience can be two different things. I think a finger snap and pointing at your fly is only considered foreplay in Italian marriages these days.

Reading erotica can be stimulating to the libido as well as enlightening, as long as both remember it is primarily fantasy. I've found that when my complete attention is on my partners pleasure that my own reaches it's greatest heights. A slow, (that's spelled S, L, O, W) long exploration of sensuality can be many years of changing and pleasurable exploration and discovery to a marriage.

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