I agree with going to the "dating" website....weather your looking for a one time meeting or meeting on multiple occasions this is a way of getting to know the "other" person before you meet. Bringing in another person(s) is like dating, so I suggest you and your guy look for someone together, do not do it seperately as you both need to be atracted and compatable with the 3rd or 4th person you are going to be with.