From my experiences, I think it just happens one day. All of a sudden, those feelings just overwhelm you, and...you know.

Now that I've bought my first toys, I guess I have a worry in the back of my mind that I won't be able to or be as quick to orgasm once I get back into a regular sexual relationship again.

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Though dreams can be deceiving, like faces are to hearts; they serve for sweet relieving when fantasy and reality lie too far apart.-Fiona Apple