Look at the positive side of the control though. If you can control your body well enough, you can orgasm that much better and longer. Plus, it also means when you do give in, it'd be that much sweeter. Anticipation and desire with denial is a fairly common play is it not? Besides, I never said that control was the point of existence.

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