I do a little of both sometime I'm like a bull in a china shop just go full blast and don't care what happens but other thing I look back on and try ti figure out what I did wrong or why I did something

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it's only kinky the first time

it's not the orgasm but getting there thats fun

a shot in the bush is worth two in the hand

whip me, beat me, tie me up, break my arm, but please don't break my heart

"The trouble with the world is that the stupid people are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt" -Bertrand Russell