blkcat, I think you are going to extremes...some members just know for sure that their S/Os for example are not as sexually expressive or into these topics in the first place. The other one not knowing does not necessarily suggest relationship problems. I for one think by saying that it's almost like you are suggesting we are the root of a deeper problem.

I know the ex I mentioned was simply too conservative. Therefore I knew from that point that I'd be a solo pixie until I find someone more willing to participate in a site like this.

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