I've been around pixies for about 2 years now, and for a long while I didn't mention it to anyone in my immediate circle of friends or family.
Now, I have a few friends who know about my pixie life (both male and female) - although some don't know I have posted pics
As for my S/O - he knows I chat, but not about my posts
I introduced my best friend Hellsbells to the site .. and I have a couple of other very close friends and my cousin who have seen the pics I have posted .. and all of them think it's cool.