I think the perception of other men is that women use sex to get their partner to do what they want, but when I think of the term pussy whipped I just think of a man who 'does as he's told' by a woman.

I have certainly had SOs in the past whom I feel have just done what I wanted to keep me quiet rather than because they wanted to please me. I hate that in a person. I like a guy who knows his own mind, but is willing to compromise, because that's how I see myself.

I suppose the ideal would be a guy who does what I want because he wants to, but then how would I ever be sure that he wasn't just doing it to shut me up?! Hell, most of the time, I need shutting up! Lol

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