I don't consider "pussy whipped" to be a favorable term at all. I don't consider it a term used for a man who treats his woman well and gives her the things she desires...

I do however consider a man who lacks the backbone to stand up to a negatively controlling bitch of a wife... continually bends to her whims (to the detrement of his own happiness and well being)... doesn't stand up for what he believes in (within the relationship)... to be Pussy whipped.

I am a VERY strong woman personality wise, and it takes a very strong man to be able to handle me. I don't want a man to bend to my every whim (if it is something that he is opposed to) and sacrifice his personal happiness. I don't like "pussy whipped" men, especially if I am doing the whippen... sorry.. but I need a man to stand up to me and tell me I am wrong... or call me a bitch when I am acting like one (and shouldn't be)...

just my thoughts..