I totally agree with Lou and Aqua. Personally, I hate the term. Why do we have to use terms that seem to always make women sound bad or make it sound like it's a so terrible to be female or like a female or, like Aqua said, to want to do something with your female SO rather than "the boys"? You don't hear people saying that she's "dick whipped." Or why "son of a bitch" but never "son of a bastard"? Or what's so terrible about being a "mother fucker," unless you're being accused of fucking your OWN mother? Even mothers love sex, or at least most of us do. Or, "Gee, fella, you throw like a girl!" But if you told a girl that she throws like a boy, that'd be a compliment. Or, "You drive like an old lady." You don't hear, "You drive like an old man." I could go on and on. (Or am I just being a "bitch"?)

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