i would never ever do anything like that to my husband. I think a marriage is a marriage and at the end iof the day you really shouldnt cheat on someone you supposedly love and trust with all your heart. If you do feel the need to cheat then in my opinion your obvioulsy not in the right relationship. I fancy a male friend like mad but would never do anything with him sexually. I t just wouldnt be the done thing. And then not only that thers the guilt that comes after you have cheated. I couldnt live with myself.