CP, I don't think that having sex with someone else will help things at all. In fact, it will probably make things much much worse. Bad idea in my opinion.

Being a guy I can tell you that looking at porn has nothing to do with who you are with. I look at porn and never compair the girls in porn to my wife. My wife is the most beautiful thing in the world. Period.

Why do I still look at porn? Because it gives me visual stimulation, new ideas of fun things to try, etc.. But I have never wanted to have sex with the people I see online. (even though there are some sexy Pixies out there)

That's not to say you don't have a right to be mad, becuase he did agree not to look at Asain girls and you have caught him doing that. That was not nice of him at all. However, maybe you should talk to him and get things in the clear. Maybe he has a reason for liking Asains, after all, you are Asain.... Maybe it helps him visualize you in his mind when it is an Asain on the screen.

Besides, even if he does for some reason compare you to the girls online, I am sure you would win. Think about who he shares his bed with.. it's not the computer, it's you!

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-Deno