I think it is important to distinguish between a decreased or absent desire to orgasm and an inability to orgasm. For example, some medications take away your desire; some medications don't take away your desire but DO take away your ability to orgasm. If you are stressed out and/or depressed, you may suffer from a decreased desire. If you have diabetes, you may have the desire to come but not the ability to come because of a problem w/circulation to the area. So...in a nutshell, I think it is important to know exactly what the problem is and whether the way you're thinking of dealing w/it will actually eliminate the problem or whether it will only treat the symptoms, w/the cause still remaining. I hope that was clearer than mud!

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