I find the fuck buddy is good for emotional support as well as mind-blowing sex. I have two of them... The first I lost my virginity to when I was 13 (and we're still like rabbits 13 years later). The other one is a co-worker who lives in Atlanta and we get together about 4 times per year.

I'm close with both and they provide emotional support as well as ...support of a more physical kind.

I would highly recommend you find one...but seek someone who is giving, not jealous, and good in bed. It makes sense to plan for the long haul. :-)

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney