I prefer him sitting against the back of the bed w/me lying tummy down on the bed or me perpendicular to him so that he can reach my breasts or between my legs at the same time; or, to awaken him while he is sleeping, him on his side w/me on my opposite side facing him; or him on his back w/me kneeling over him; or me on my back on the bed w/my head hanging over the edge and him standing over me in a face-f**k position so he can play w/my breasts as I play w/myself. Me on my knees facing him unless HE sees that as putting me in a degrading position--then forget it.

Don't have enough experience on the receiving end to say, but I'd probably prefer to be lying down on my back.

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