pantfantaic - thanks for the reply and yeah me and pudsey have though long and hard about it and decided that we do love each other immensley and whatever happens between me and my intrenet mate nothing will change that.

Me and my mate would only be having sex and nothing else would come in to it. ie we wouldnt fall for each other or anything because for a start therse the issue of children. he does i dont.

its just me and pudsey i guess wanting to spice up our sex life in a way!