I think that you and pudsey have taken the first steps toward handling the situation in that you're both honest and open with each other. You **must** continue this honesty throughout the experience. Feelings change. And you might feel more for this person as you persue this relationship or pudsey might find that it's one thing to be O.K. with this in theory, but another when it actually happens. So, at the risk of repeating myself, keep the communication going to avoid hurting each other.

Needless to say, you must tread cautiously here. I agree with Osuche that the encounter should be on neutral ground, perhaps with pudsey (or another trusted friend) somewhere nearby? Is it too late to change the venue? You might feel comfortable because of the correspondence you've had over the past several months, but that is vastly different from **knowing** someone. I hope you enjoy the experience but be careful. And need I say practice **safer** sex?

Hope I don't come across as an old fuddy-duddy. Just my 2 cents.

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