I tried to stay away from responding to this thread b/c I was initially alarmed when I first read it (explained shortly) and I wanted to see what others thought. (And admittedly, I tend to read too much into things).
Others have waxed more eloquently that I ever could on the matter of the difference in age. What set off my alarm bells was the following:
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Originally posted by SexualSpree
...***I haven't been to successful in my relationships with the ladies so far. ***...
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Now, SS, are you sure that your attraction to this person is not b/c of the difficulty you're having with members of the fairer sex who are your peers? Given this difficulty, does this "relationship" appear more attractive precisely because this person is underage, immature, and perhaps easily influenced? As, Fzzy stated earlier, the difference in age at this stage of both your lives is larger than mere chronology would indicate.
You also stated:
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Originally posted by SexualSpree
...***Ya, I understand what ya'll are saying. I definately wouldn't consider doing anything sexual with her until she was of legal age. ***...
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I should hope not! And I find it hard to believe that someone who admittedly have difficulties with ladies in a more appropriate age group, would be willing to wait several years before "doing anything sexual"--whatever the hell that means. Are we to believe that until she "ripens" the relationship will consist merely of, what? Innocent little pecks on the cheek, hand holding, stolen glances across a park bench. Oi-Vey!
Your own postings indicate a troubled conscience, so I'm sure you know that this relationship is not right for you. (And, more important, not right for **her**).
You're an adult, man. Act like it.
Selah.