The problem with unconditional love is, although love is and should be unconditional the relationships we set up for ourselves to contain this love is frought with conditions. If you want unconditional love,buy a puppy.Have I ever loved anybody too much? We tend to romanticise love.Right now I would settle for a good relationship with a lady I cold get along with and find myself carring about.This must be true love. If you ask me,people who obsess about another,do so out of a non existant self esteme.Might as well hear them say,You define me and without you,I'm nothing.Please don't get me wrong,I am not that cynical about love at all,but I do think it carries around to much baggage and if used as a crutch,it is called codependency,can be very unhealthy.

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Sex is one of nine reasons for reincarnation.The other eight are unimportant...Henry Miller