08-20-2003, 03:48 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Culver City, CA, US
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Quote:
Originally posted by osuche
Try a little test (I LOVE these)...
Make yourself inaccessible for a few days (no phone calls, emails, or nights at your place). Try it for at least a week.,
See how frantic he gets. If he panics and asks what's wrong he may be willing to make concessions. If he goes on like normal, you are a mere convenience and should find yourself another beau.
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Ladies, please don't test your men! We are far too stupid to know if we are being tested :fly: and your test results will be innacurate.
ummmm ask him what he wants. He (being a guy) might not know what he wants (other than the best of both worlds) and he might not be able to articulate it. Take his answer at face-value, and if you can live with it, stay with him and do not try to change him. If you can't live with it, bid him a fond farewell - there is always someone else in line after him.
No, you are not wrong to feel love for him, but you must put you first.
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