what makes a partner good at what they do in your opinion? Good is a partner who is simply way into pleasuring herself, not acting, not sounding like a bad porn video.

Do you like to be the one to talk? Yes.

And listen to your partner moan and groan and give you feedback? Yes, but groans have to be natural -- if a woman is normally quiet when she masturbates then play-acting on her part is usually a downer.

Or do you like to take controll? I try to get a feel for what turns her on and I find a sly way to push that particular button.

Or do prefer to take turns? Usually not, but again if that turns her on I will go with her flow.

What can a partner do that drives you wild? Go for a third orgasm.

And on the other side...what can they do to turn you off? Sound fake.

What was your best and worst phone sex experience? Best too many to enumerate, but usually involve a first-timer, or a vibrator addict, or a multi-tasker who's also watching porn, or just a good masturbation voice.
Worst experiences are just women with little imagination who just sound fake, or shy ones who hang up right before they orgasm, although once I talked with a girl who forgot which button to push to disconnect from one-on-one, so when she was about to cum and while she was cumming intensely I heard her beeping different buttons. That got me off because it was so unplanned on her part.

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