Mix well and heat up for 45 minutes.
As stated before I think Wanda does a very good job of putting preferences into categories, but Ophelia has me kicking myself for not thinking of the exact point she made when she commented that while certain sexual acts are a good indictator, that's not what makes you gay or straight. That's one thing that bothers me is when "community leaders" get up in arms about gay rights and focus solely on the sexual part of the relationship. There's a lot more to it than that! I think if you take Wanda's categories along with Ophelia's point of view, you'll get a rather cloudy picture... which is great!
That is what makes us individuals! Certainly it helps to have a category... Like PantyFanatic said, it helps us communicate more easily. Well, I will now relinquish my soapbox...
And get back to focusing on the sexual part of a relationship!