You can't/don't explain the Stooges - you just laugh at how stupid the are! Actually, I think the Stooges appeal to the little boy in us, when I grew up I much prefered the Marx Bros. (Sure, I'm a Marxist!)
Back to the topic at hand, now - the underlying theme I hear in this discussion is that we all wish we could discribe ourselves in a few simple words, but the words we wish to use have been turned into "labels" that have been used to hurt & pigeonhole - I'm with sixsense, I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body too - but I'm also much more than that - and I also wish so many of us males didn't feel the need to be Neanderthals to prove their manhood - but then again, I see so many women throw themselves at the bad boys! Ok, rambling man is back again, what was the topic again?

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