You were not harsh...and my feeling are not hurt at all. As a self proclaimed spokes person for the "incredibly sexual-hates to be labled-kicked around by "normal" people" person, I must admit that I LOVE to engage in discussions such as these. I like to be pushed to evaluate my thoughts and feelings on a regular basis. As a Libra (for those other astrological nuts) I crave the knowledge that gives me a balanced point of view...and I feel that discussion and evaluation prevents ignorance that hurts!

Thank you for your perspective...and your challenges. I think you have hit the nail on the head over and over. I merely hope to offer a view that separates sexual behavior from lables associated with "lifestyle".

I don't know that I am making any sense....

I come not to offend...but rather to expand! I love inuendos!

Ophelia