Well if anyone cares for a quick update ::heehee:: I hadn't really put much more thought into it after I posted this. Then the other day I was kinda frisky, he wasn't around.. this may sound odd but I guess you could say I strategically placed two pillows together (with a toy in between). I dunno, I guess with my little experiment, I found what feels best while ontop. Outta nowhere tonight he told me to get on top... I was totally comfortable and he even asked why we don't f**k like that more often. I guess practice makes perfect ehh?