It's when a guy puts a hole in the bottom of a bucket of popcorn and puts his penis through it so when his date reaches for popcorn, eventually she will grab him instead.

From what I hear.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.