OK, since I don't imagine I can sucker you out to Oxford (although I do give one hell of a tour)...I'm declaring myself unbiased.

This time of year, a driving tour of the finger lakes (or just a nice quiet perch near one of them) would be stunning. Beautiful trees, lovely scenery, wine tasting as you go, and all sorts of good things.

Also high on my list, if you've never been....Santa Fe. Any time of year (except mid summer, if you're opposed to heat). The food is stunning, the town is lovely, the O'Keefe museum is a must, the archetecture is fab, and there are galleries and shopping opportunities galore. It's a wanderer's paradise....or you can just sit on your balcony and watch the sunset across the mountains.

Just a couple of thoughts....hope you find the perfect getaway!