I don't know where you live Lilith, but since you said you could take a plane, how about Door County, Wisconsin?

Depending on the time of year, think: lighthouses, fall colors, snowmobiling, airplane rides, horseback rides, sailboat rides, train rides, scuba diving, skiing, winery, museums, and theatres.

Have you ever made love in the snow? Everyone should try that at least once. Of course, then you'll need to warm up. Can you feel the warmth of the flames on your inner thighs as Mr. Lil treats you to divine oral pleasure in front of the fireplace?

And no trip to Wisconsin would be complete with a trek to Green Bay to worship...er...experience the holy...er...legendary frozen tundra of Lambeau Field. Buy a Packers jersey. Eat at Brett Favre's Steakhouse (surprisingly romantic) right arond the corner from Lambeau. The comedy club in town is a riot. Eat at the Prime Quarter on Oneida St. where you grill your own steak in a cozy atmosphere. Visit Gipper's sports bar. They also have another bar in town that's 3 bars in one - all in the same building. One area is country, one might be jazz, and the other rock. Dance the night away there. There's also a great Casino in town. Or take a dinner cruise on the riverboat as you watch a Packer's game.

I love Wisconsin!