Awesome insights Cheyanne.....Really appreciate your thoughts.

I would not be giving anything to my wife in return for sex. I realise that maybe she doesn't get enough time to herself and as I love her so and want her to be happy I am doing anything and everything out of love for her. If sex happens to be a byproduct of time to herself then great. If not then perhaps there are deeper problems be they medical, physical or emotional.

Sorry if I gave the impression of offering a bribe....... It wasn't my intention.