Way to go Skip! I have often wondered why when in a long term relationship with no more expectations of children are wanted, that the man just doesn't go in and get his tube seared.... lol

A woman shouldn't have to always be the one to subject herself to synthetic hormones, IUDs that could lead to major problems, or go have an invasive surgery to get her tubes tied when the man could possibly (as an outpatient with no overnight stay) just have a vascetomy.

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