The BIG difficulty about 69 is that it is impossible to concencentrate on what you are doing when some-one else is doing wonderful things to your cock or pussy. Sorry, but there it is. Fact of life. So we 'assume the position' - preferrably with Milady on top so she has complete control of exactly where I'm licking - and take it in turns. Mmmmmh!

Tip -

when the man is underneath,, put a small folded cushion under his head to tip it forward. This brings his face up more to the natural angle of her pussy and makes it easier for her to spread pussy all over him (V. nice!)