no englishrose... unfortunately.. I don't think that it is as simple as only the ignorant people in your town... I think ignorance is an epidemic... and it is everywhere..

Sadly... I think that this world is filled with "Now"... and unless some sort of satisfaction is obtained in the "Now", they aren't willing to stick around for the good stuff....

I have the very same problem... here on the net.. I have several wonderful men who shower me with attention (okay.. that might be a slight exageration)... but when I go out... I don't get a second look... (well maybe a snicker, or atleast that is how I sense it)... and I come home alone...


HUGS englishrose... I can relate... oh so much..