silentsoul.... I should apologize.. I re-read my post, and thought "What a bitch!!".... I must have been having a bad day and didn't really post what I hoped would have been some advice, not a slam.

Basically.... let her get comfortable with Pixies first.. either by using your nick to check out the posts, or better yet, become a member herself and post. That way she will get to know all of us, and be comfortable with the forums.

It took me a good six months or so to gather up the courage to post pictures... and it was very liberating, I felt sexy, and it boosted my esteem and thoughts on my body.

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