
03-06-2002, 08:06 AM
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'What a tagled web we weave'......Your intentions were good and unfortuneately it has come around to bite you in the behind. This is one of those tricky situations because you do not want to make him feel lied to or deceived but you also don't want to continue faking it. There are several routes you can take
1. At some point, in a non sexual situation, tell him the truth. That you are not experiencing the Big O from penetration and could use some help in achieveing orgasm during your love making session. (BTW it is not unusual for us to need clittoral stimulation to reach the Big O)
2.Show him. Have a mutual masterbation night and tell him and show him exactly what works the best for you. Have him show you as well.
3.Get some lube.... If you are experiencing dryness you will have a lot less fun. You can find flavored oils etc. to make it fun for him too.
~Communication is vital if you are going to be able to deal with any issue in your relationship. Sex is just one of those issues. I hope all works out. Keep us posted!Good Luck!
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