May I interrupt?
I have the same problem, my wife, as I guess is with most all women, likes and needs what you said you need. But it is difficult for men, or some men to do that or be that way most of the time. It is bad, and I wish it were differant. But most men, it is in there genetics, to reproduce as much as possible, hence the lack of being romantic most of the time. We just like to jump right into it and have fun, not cuddle and such, that is where we are lacking, something most men have to really work at for the womens sake and satisfaction.

My opinion, although it my be wrong?
Sorry if it is.

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