I remember recently in this very column that a lady pixie was asking if she should invite another man who he was involved on line with. with the full knowledge and consent of her S/O.

The deed was done and the 3 some was had with the positive input of her S/O.

Guess what? after this there started to be problems in their relationship. I told you so was not something I wanted to say but there it was.

Keep it fantasy Missy, it is not worth even risking stuffing up a good relationship for a few fleeting moments pleasure.