It takes you that long to get off? Wow that is insane and I thought my boyfriend's 30mins to an hour was too long! I honestly like to have my one giant orgasm and then would rather call it quits. Instead I have to coax him into orgasm (moaning, groaning, dirty words) while thinking "please just finish". I suppose it is because I am still pretty tight though. I think it'd be cool to have a guy that cums quickly because a. he thinks you are HOT b. It feels "that good" to him and c. he'll probably feel guilty and wind up giving tons of oral pleasure. btw, I absolutely love foreplay but when my boyfriend gets turned on, he needs SEX. I'd love for him to just rest his hand gently on my thigh and move his fingers around the lines of my underwear. I could handle that for hours and would get so much more turned on than if he just started probing me. So guys, keep that in mind. With sexual touches etc, less can be more. For the breasts, don't suck them right away or even take off the bra right away. That just gets me so hot and bothered.