I masturbate a lot in a relationship. Two scenarios -- he's not interested (and I'm there fingering away while he is blissfully snoring on the other side of the bed) or I am traveling with work (and have no other alternative).

Either way, I tend to have the greater sex drive.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney