Thanks Lixy - I have done the "ok lets go to see the social services thing" and yes as soon as we got out side she wanted to tell them when it suited her. And as for the rest becaue I don't live with her and her mother I can't unfortunatly do that, even though I know it would her the world of good just to see how well she is actually treated.

Thanks again to everyone for their helpful postings, as many of you know the darkness can sometimes seem to extinguish all light but by being postive i will soon reach and pass the point I was at before last night.

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If not an excuse for death,
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