Is that one of those "simile/metaphor" questions like "plow your neighbor's field"? ha ha

Yes, I have no problem stopping and offering a jumpstart to a stranded vehicle.

Oops...No, I've never crashed on someone's couch. I've always been able to get home reasonably safely, though sometimes it probably could have been credited to divine intervention.

Would you ever drink questionable milk because you're not totally convinced it's spoiled?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.