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Old 01-27-2004, 09:02 PM
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This is a tough one. I'd like to say that I wouldn't cheat, but I'm enough of a realist to say that isn't true. And I know it wouldn't be true in my partner's case either. I can't foresee all situations, so it's possible that it could happen. A moment of weakness, a moment of desire, a moment of anger at being ignored in your relationship, a moment too far, a moment of drunken debauchery... Yes, they would probably be followed by much regret and heartbreak, but I've considered it, thought about it, and can't say that it would never happen.

I'd like to believe that if it happened, and my partner had an affair, I'd be able to forgive and recognise it for the fling that it was. Again, I'm enough of a realist to know that I'd be hurt, and it would take ages to get over the betrayal and loss of communication it would imply. Unless she did it with my blessing in the first place!
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