Yes...but I always come back with "This doesn't let you off the hook. You may not have been responsible for this, but I'm sure you're guilty of something! I just haven't figured out what it is yet!" That's always good for a laugh and breaks the ice.

Have you ever ignored a parking ticket?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.