Labels are both a blessing and a curse - especially PC ones.

I think it's OK if you are not offended, and I propose adding one:

SSW = Skinny, Sickly Waif.

You must be proud of what you are and others WILL judge, or pre-judge, and it THEY need a lable to understand - so be it.

It's not what THEY see that matters it's what YOU see.

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BND

"Life is a choice, so choose wisely"