My issue with all of this is less with the label itself and more with what I see as the bigger issue, which is a culture that works against people being "comfortable in their own skin" (I love that thought, can't remember where I heard it first). A lot of people have problems with their body image, particularly women, and it saddens me when a woman cannot truly be herself because she believes she has "too much of this" or "not enough of that." I know I've loved women who have told me that they can't understand why anyone would be attracted to them, one actually told me that anyone who found her attractive must have something wrong with them (thanks for telling me a couple of years into our relationship - it didn't last long after that). I think my issue is with anything that contribute to holding someone back from being themselves in the most fulfilling way possible.

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My dick may sound bigger in metric, but its still average. That okay, its not as if I can wear it down anyway, not that I haven't tried...