Thanks for putting this thread on the top again. It has really opened my eyes and mind a lot.

I completely agree with grumbleguts. This is one of the best threads I have read yet. So many times I have had these same types of discussions with friends of mine, but they often didn't comprehend. This is just one of the many reasons I love this site. I, as many of you who have read my other posts may know, am interested in both sexes. When people ask my orientation I do usually respond with "i'm just very sexual". people are people. If i'm attracted to you it is based on many things, some of which are intelligence, personality, looks. it matters not to me your gender. There is so much more i can say on this topic, but its late and my vocabulary goes to hell after 9. maybe i'll go on at a later date if people are interested. anyway, goodnight all - ash