I think folks here "got" your question....and I think Lilith's right. Take people here on faith, or assume they're exagerating, either one. Because the truth tellers won't change their story, and any lyers (if any) will keep on telling woppers .

But for what it's worth, I'll take my stab at your question. I have no reason to fib here....what I show is very much me. Hell, not everything I've said here is bragging or beautiful . This certainly is not the part of me that my co-workers or my students get...but I think we always show different facets of ourselves depending on the situation. But what I do, what I want, what I like...it's all as advertised here. Although, apart from my love of casual flirting, you'd never know it if you met me at a dinner party. I'm not sure if you consider that lying or not....I know that I don't.